shynessShyness is not necessarily a problem unless you make it one. It’s okay if you need time warm up to new people and situations. However, you have to keep in mind that shyness can prevent you being as comfortable or sociable as you would like to be or see your being able to do so in social situations.  The goal of most shy people is to feel less shy so they can enjoy socializing and being themselves when around other people. Here are some tips to assist you in overcoming your feelings of shyness:

  • Overcoming shyness takes practice. People who are shy tend to give themselves fewer chances to practice social behaviors that would help alleviate their shyness. It’s no wonder that people who shy away from socializing do not feel as socially confident as people who are outgoing because it’s obvious, they have less practice! The more you practice strategies to help with shyness, the easier it becomes and the more natural it feels to you.
  • Take slow, steady steps forward. Going slow is OK. But be sure to go forward. Stepping back from any situations that might trigger you to feel shy can reinforce shyness and keep it at a level that’s hard to get past. Build confidence by taking one small step at a time.

  • It’s OK to feel awkward. Everyone does sometimes. People who are shy are often afraid to feel awkward or uncomfortable. But don’t let that keep you from doing what you want. You might feel awkward asking your crush for a first date. That’s perfectly natural. Whether your crush says yes — or no — is out of your control. But not asking at all means you’ll never get that date or even if the person is interested in going out with you . So go for it anyway!
  • Know that you can do it. Plenty of people learn to manage their shyness. Know that you can, too.
  • Be yourself. It’s OK to try out different conversational approaches you see others using. However, it’s important if you say and do what fits your style. Being the real you — and daring to let yourself be noticed — is what attracts friends.

If you’re like most people who are shy, the easiest part is knowing what changes you want to make. The challenge is figuring out how to get there and then sticking to your game plan.  Shyness does not have to be a problem. There are techniques and strategies out there that can either help you with your shyness or diminish it altogether! All you have to do is look for the resources, implement them and place yourself in situations where your shyness is triggered and practice, practice, practice. You will soon find out that the uncomfortableness that you felt in the past has decreased as well as your shyness.

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